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In 9 days, on the one year anniversary of the first day we met, joedecker and I are going to go into the woods and celebrate our committment to each other with a handfasting. This will be a private ritual between us, the trees and the gods. We are writing about it here because word has started spreading fast and we want to make sure people hear it from the source. (Also, we're finding it very hard to contain the squeeing.)

We are doing this for lots of reasons, one big one is to recognize the amazing relationship we have and how important we have quickly become to each other. All of our partners know about this and have given their consent and support. (For clarification, we are not leaving any of our partners and we are not becoming primary partners to each other.)

We're kind of writing our own polyamorous rules about all of this as we go along. In a way, isn't that part of what polyamory is all about? Please ask us if you have any questions.

Joe's post about it is here:
http://joedecker.livejournal.com/1040773.html